Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Going Bald… again…

Well, dang it. I’m losing my hair at a very rapid pace these days. This is the 3rd time I will have gone bald due to cancer treatments, for those keeping score at home. It’s not as traumatic as the first time, and I’m taking it in stride. 

My hair started falling out last Thursday. I am shedding like a long-haired cat in the summer heat. Even though I’ve felt like my hair’s been thinner these last few years, I’m losing vast amounts daily, and can’t believe there’s anything left up there! 

This quote happens a lot at our house right now…

As a result, my bathroom is covered in my pelt. I’ve decided to rename it Gaston. 

I also like the idea of saying, “Excuse me, I have to go 
visit Gaston” when I need to use the bathroom.

Anyway, I made an appointment at the Avera Wig Salon at the Prairie Center right away to order a nice wig with some “maturity” in it, so that when my hair grows back in again (fingers crossed!), it will look roughly the same color.  I went in yesterday to try some colors and cuts out. I opted for this combination. 

The top row is the color
Bottom row is the cut.

Fingers crossed that the combination is in stock, and I’ll get it on Tuesday (6 days, but who’s counting?)

I also decided to visit with the Palliative Care team at the Prairie Center to help manage my pain, and they gave me some drugs: Dilaudid and Ritalin. I was loathe to use either of them because I don’t want to get hooked on anything, but the Dilaudid works well alongside Aleve to keep my aches and pains away, and the Ritalin seems to help my perkiness level. 

Yesterday, I visited Dr. Dawn Flickema at the acupuncture clinic (again at the Prairie Center. I basically live there now), and told her my litany of problems. She said for generalized aches and pains, they do acupuncture on the ears and the scalp. 

ohhh kay…

Oh AND, she put acupressure “seeds” in one ear to help stimulate the areas she needled for longer. These metal seeds will stay in for 3-5 days, then just fall out. She only does one ear at a time, so I can still sleep on the other side.

There are 5 metal “seeds” activating pressure points to help relieve pain.
Also note the headband is covering a lot of visible scalp

Now, I don’t know if it was the acupuncture, the Ritalin or the wig shopping, but yesterday afternoon after all this, I felt AMAZING! Or maybe normal? I can’t remember what that feels like anymore. But I had energy, I was in a great mood, I EXERCISED (practiced choreography) for a solid hour! I made it through our second dress rehearsal for the show I’m playing for this weekend, AND I slept great to boot. 


This morning, I’m continuing to attempt the covering of my scalp. 


This is AFTER attempting to style it.

I don’t know if a headband’s going to do the trick today.

Hat day it is. 

This hat will definitely bother the top of my ear where the acupressure seed is, but it’s the price ya gotta pay for style, I guess. 

Also, everything old is new again. I bought this hat in the late 90s and these boots in the early 90s, when I was going through a “Victorian” phase. 


The whole ensemble (minus the hat) 
for the curious
#bathroomselfie
Top and skirt are thrifted

I doubt I’ll make it much longer without shaving my head and starting in on old wigs until I get my new one. I had hoped to make it through this weekend’s performances, but that’s looking doubtful. Oh well… 

1 comment:

  1. My hair is always thing from lupus and thyroid, so I understand. The headband is super cute. I like the first wig better, if you're asking for opinions. I love you friend. Thinning hair or full head of hair you are the best <3

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